I'm 36weeks today and we are only just having a baby shower due to some personal issues. My best friend talked me into having it and has organised the whole thing with some help from our parents so I have absolutely no idea about any of it. I've been really excited for it up until last night.....my mum has been SOO negative about the whole thing and has complained about so much and has even dictated what people can and cannot buy us (ive made it very clear we do not expect gifts from people we just want to celebrate with our favourite people) my partner's mum has gone the opposite way and has done wayy to much and has even invited people we have never met or heard of before. I don't know if it's just a "pregnancy mood swing", my anxiety, the lack of sleep or a mix of all 3 but I really just want to stay home and hide under the covers