Any better way to start a conversation to break up a real of 8 years and only one year of engagement?

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Please help!!! I’m so stressed out i am physically sick, and I can’t sleep with out having nightmares.

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Darling, it will hurt, but if you're doing what's right for you then you need to acknowledge that and keep moving forward!

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I don't know the circumstances: is he abusive? Is he great but you're just not feeling it? 
You just tell him you've decided marrying him isn't the right move for you. Your relationship has run it's course and it's time to move on. 
Breaking things off before marriage is much better than having to deal with divorce later.

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I took all of your advice, I broke up with him. He would talk to me like I was two years old, and condescending. Treated me like he had to take care of me like a child and not and adult. He wasn’t listing to what I was talking about, when it came to my job or what I wanted in life. I didn’t see myself growing, I would come home and just lay on the sofa and do nothing. He always told me I was depressed and told me I should see a doctor and get on medication. Since I have broken up with him and moved out. I have energy and I have been doing things. Taking change in my life for the good.

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Do it in a public place. Like a coffee shop. And get it over and done with ASAP it’s going to be difficult and it will hurt. There’s no point dragging it out, that will make it worse.

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Why break up ?

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Just do it. It won’t b easy, but it just needs to get done. Remember to be respectfully of him to honour what you had. But stay focused and don’t get talked out of it and don’t over explain.
Unless you’re in fear for your safety from him??

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You think of how happy you’ll be, not how pissy he’ll be.

Any better way to start a conversation to break up a real of 8 years and only one year of engagement?

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