About a month or two ago I met a a guy on tender, and we really clicked, we went on dates, did many activities even had sex and shit....he never really said what he wanted from me, he never talked about it, so the other night I went on another blind date with another guy from tender, and God he was all over me and willing to risk it all and he even told me he was ready for a RELATIONSHIP with me....I was SHOCK because never have I ever met a guy on my first date that’s was automatically ready for a relationship with me, HE EVEN DELETED HIS TENDER ACCOUNT LAST NIGHT SAYING THAT HE FOUND WHAT HE WAS LOOKING FOR (which is me) and that there was no need to even be on it anymore. So after our blind date (which went GREEEAAATTTTTT) and him pouring out his feeling about me, he dropped me off at home, I decided to call the the first guy I met a few month back, and asked him if he was even interested in me, willing to be my boyfriend, and her said no he just wanted to be friends😞 I was hurt when he said no because I was really starting to like him, but I’m glad I asked him though because I would have been more hurt if I had not asked him and we continue having meaningless sex, than BOOM he stop talking to me out the blue😮

Am I fool to feel hurt, even after the first guy said he wanted to be just friends? And should I give the second guy a chance? 😞☹️