Baby shower wording advice

Jen

Hi! I need help how to word registry stuff - I live in a different state than my baby shower, so I am flying back to my hometown to have a baby shower and fly back to my current residency. I would like people to do gift cards or order things off my registry and send it directly to my home so that I’m not traveling with a million things by myself pregnant. How can I word this without it sounding rude? ** I agree that people should know, but I’m the first person in my friend group/family to have a baby, so that common sense is not there, and I don’t want people showing up with a bunch of clothes and things, so seeking how to word this since that common sense WONT be there 😂**