So recently my boyfriend and I were taking about our futures and he said “I want to have a big and fulfilling future” and I agreed and then he asked about mine and I said “well hopefully marry you, have kids and hopefully it’ll be fulfilling like yours”. Lately I’ve been super stressed and every single thing seems to make me cry. Well the more I thought about it I realized he didn’t say anything about having me in his future and it hit me hard. I started to cry in front of him and he hates it when I cry. He didn’t get why I was crying so I explained it to him and he isn’t the best with communication and he told me I was being “annoying and obnoxious”.

He’s a great guy and I love him very much but when he calls me “obnoxious” it really hurts. Any advice on how to handle the situation?