Hi there. I'mma just get straight to the point, I'm a 20 year old female and I can't properly enjoy sex. I first became sexually active at 17. It took about a year to do actual penetration because he could never get his penis in. And every since than, sex had been extremely painful. You could do all the the licking and fingering in the world to me, yet when it came down to actually bumpin uglies it hurt. No it didn't burn or anything. When said male enters his manhood, it doesn't hurt at all, it feels amazing. My problem is when they wanna go deeper. I get a really bad sharp pain in my stomach, like a cramp, and this happens with every thrust. No matter the position or even the size, because tho I'm not really experienced, I've been with guys who are both average and above. Never had below average but that wouldn't even matter because about 4 inches in and I'm screaming and running away in pain. And it's so frustrating, to both me and said male. Two guys have told me its supposed to hurt, but even I know sex isn't supposed to be painful at all. One even suggested maybe it was because I'm so small (5'0 ft, 120 lbs) I've even sat through the pain before until I really couldn't take it, thinking if I sit through it this time, maybe it won't be as bad next time and I'll be a bit looser, but nope same issue every time. I haven't done anything sexual for about 8 months now, and am scared to even enter a relationship out of fear they'll just up and go because of the situation, like my first love did. I've had a pelvic exam recently and even brought up the situation. I didn't have any STD's, everything was normal except for a little bit of a yeast infection, and the doctors didn't really look into reasons that could be causing me pain. It's seriously driving me nuts. Advice?