If you get in an argument with your husband that’s been drinking some beer and is in his right mind but 100000% not sober. like a screaming argument and he bucks at you. And you say hit me. And he does and he walks away and he then says “ say something else about that” and you do and he comes back to hit you. Are you responsible for him hitting you? Opinions after the fight y’all go to bed you wake up to being sore and not being able to move he has work the next day and he gets up gets you meds, and takes care of you. After the drunk fight is this abuse?