Thoughts on tubal reversal?

Rhonda

I've looked through the posts and I am seeing a lot of miscarriages right after a t.r. I have 2 boys who are pre/teen and I am debating on having the reversal done late this year or early next year. My question is, is it worth it? Having another child with my SO would be a dream come true however he has lost a few children already and it would crush him to lose any more. (Saying that I wouldn't tell him we were pg until after the risk had passed.)