So I met a guy at a wedding I went to last weekend. I’m a mother to a 3 year old and so I don’t have tons of time to date and I’m honestly a little skeptical of men in general.

He was super keen for us to meet up the next morning for brunch, though I knew I’d be picking up my daughter and he was drunk so I figured he’d probably forget 🤷‍♀️

But no, got a text st 3 am saying how nice it was to meet me and we should do something soon. So I texted him back in the morning and I heard from him immediately. He has a podcast so I listened and liked what I heard so I started to come around to him. It’s not that I felt something was wrong with him but he’s only 31 and I Just feel we’re at different life stages. Anyway he has three nieces he’s super close to so he’s no stranger to children and isn’t scared off by my having one seemingly...

So we met on the Monday for a quick coffee after work before I picked up my daughter. Went well, but I didn’t feel any flirt to it. But he sounds like a stand up guy so I’m like let me see what’s up with him.

We text all week, he’s always saying he’s excited to see me and we make tentative

Plans for the Friday night, though he records his podcast that night so he didn’t know when he’d be done. By the time he was done, so was I lol and I was going to bed so we did brunch on the Saturday.

Again, nice date though I have a feeling that I’m kind of carrying the conversation. He doesn’t ask a ton of questions about me and often reverts what I say back to him. Also no real flirt to it. I attempt a few touches on the arm but it’s like it’s a language he doesn’t speak.

So again we make plans for Monday evening hanging out but he texts me

Today saying “is it bad that I want to see you Today and tomorrow?” Which was sweet and I had a couple hours to spare so we hung out at his place.

Again, he was down to cuddle and we kissed a little but there’s like no feedback. He doesn’t talk, he doesn’t comment, he doesn’t make any sounds. It’s like silence.

I dunno, I’m kind of feeling like I’m carrying the sexual aspect of this thing and I’m

Not sure what it’s about. He really doesn’t seem like a selfish man type, but I feel like he’s kind of boring almost???

I dunno what I’m asking really but how long do I wait to see where this can go?