I broke up with my boyfriend because of his mental health.. I’m extremely allergic to cats and he has 7. He has cat hair every where and his house has a thick scent of cat pee... his room was disgusting so everytime i went over i cleaned it bc I’d be there weekends at a time. We were in a long distance relationship and everytime i went to his house i had to medicate myself heavily and even bring my own sheets and blanket to put on his bed so I’d be comfortable. He came to my house last weekend and was super comfortable at my house. I didn’t have that luxury. I asked him if he’d put the cats in the basement at night all 7, and he said he doesn’t feel comfortable having them “trapped in there”... i was so fed up with these cats i started to freak out on him and was brutally honest :( he’s depressed and really needs to seek professional help about his mental state. I feel like a horrible person for leaving him because i know what he’s going through but he was depressing me so much and stressing me. Why do i feel like such a bad person? I feel like he’s devasted right now and it’s my fault. His house is disgusting and he won’t listen to me... i just couldn’t take it... i feel horrible right now...