So about 2 months ago I found out that my boyfriend of over a year (who I live with!!) still has Tinder installed on his phone. It kinda bothered me but I just put it to the back of my mind thinking it's just cause he's lazy as fuck and hasn't deleted because I trust him and didn't want to think about it. I brought it up to his best mate and he was "aw yeah he uses for memes and nothing else" which seems highly plausible knowing what a nerd my boyf is. 😂 A week or two later I get a call from one of my friends and she lost it going ballistic about how she found my boyfriend on Tinder and how that it is unacceptable and I shouldny stand for that etc. She convinces after hours of going on and on about it that I need to check his Tinder. So one night when he's sleeping I decide I'm going on his phone, and even though this feels so wrong because I'm really not one of those jealous types, I just had to know! I go on tinder and I see that he doesn't talk to other girls or anything and since we moved so I'm not bothered by it at all and I just dropped it completely.

Last night, my boyfriend was showing me a video on his phone and a Tinder notification came up saying that he had a new match and he just looked at the phone, then looked at me and stopped what he was saying... Like in a really guilty way.

So now I have no idea what to think...

Edit; I'm from Scotland and we used the word "memes" as slang for a piss take/ doing it for the laugh. Completely forgot it was a Scottish slang word until people started commenting, sorry for the confusion