Anyone else have friends that just don't get the struggle of ttc? That say hurtful stuff and you're not sure if they did it intentionally or not?

I have a friend who I've been really close to since right before I got pregnant with my first child. She missed a lot of the struggle we had to conceive (took us over a year) so she didn't really get to hear the venting especially every time I saw someone announce they were pregnant.

Last April her and her husband decided to try for a baby and got pregnant the first try but didn't find out for about 2 or 3 months. I was one of the first people she told and when I told her we had started trying again she got excited that we had been trying and thought we could have our kids close in age. I didn't tell her we had been trying for a year at that point though.

She's due to be induced tomorrow morning and lately I've been trying to lose weight to get myself back to a healthier size and hopefully that will increase our chances since we are a few months away from 2 years of trying. I mentioned that I had hit my calorie intake earlier in the day than I ment and she freaks out on me about how I don't have healthy eating habits if I'm not eating 7 small meals a day (I usually have 5-6 small meals spread through the day to keep me in my calorie range I need to be) and then goes on to say that the way I eat is probably why I can't get pregnant. I instantly stopped talking to her and now I'm sobbing and stress eating chicken nuggets, calories be damned...

I know it might seem sensitive but it felt to me like she was blaming me for not being able to conceive and it was like a knife to my chest from someone who didn't have to wait at all to get pregnant.