My boyfriend and I used to rent together, not all of his things were in our apartment (after he came home from college he lived at home until we moved in) After a year of us renting together, we bought a house.

Anyway, he set up his desktop at our house, and I found pictures of his previous long term girlfriend whom he dated for 4 years.

I asked him to get rid of the pics, since we’ve been talking marriage and he’s been making payments on my ring.

Months later (today) I find a flash drive in MY nightstand.

Curious, of course, since I didn’t put it there. I plugged it in to the computer, and found the pictures he deleted of her off his computer are now on this flash drive.

Since we live together, and are getting engaged, I don’t want to just break up and throw our whole relationship away. But I’m really upset, and he’s been reluctant to get rid of their pictures for the length of our relationship and it makes me feel as if he’s not over her.