My fiance seems to have a lower sex drive than I do. We've been together for 3 years and it has always been that way. He never turns me down if I ask for sex, but I'm not always comfortable asking with words. I feel that it kills the intimacy of it. I've tried dressing up, which works, but it requires a lot of forethought.

We are both very affectionate people, so we are always snuggling and kissing. Which I love!!! But it makes it harder to hint that I'm in the mood. When I think I'm being sexy and flirty, he doesn't notice the difference.

Any advice on how to work through this without outright saying "I want sex"?

I told him how I was feeling last night. He wants to work on this together, but neither of us really know what to do next.