Excess hair

Hi ladies!

So I am a plus size girl and grow dark hair around my nipples as well by as around my belly button. I've always dealt with it since high school but I'm super self conscious about it. I'm a virgin and have never been naked in front of a guy. Do any of you ladies get this too? If so and your married, do you shave it before you get physical with your significant other? Does your significant other know about it or do they not care?