Not the best timing, but I’m not deferred

Kelsi

My husband and I have been ttc, but he has recently started back to school to get his GED and follow it with a criminal justice degree. He has fallen off the band wagon, and now has a “if it happens it happens” attitude but I’m still all in. It’s not the best time to be trying purposely but I still want a baby so bad it’s killing me. He is still willing and would love to have a baby but his heart is in school now and my heart is still in ttc. I have the mindset of “well he will be almost finished with school in 9 months so really it isn’t that bad of a time”. Suggestions? Advice? I know there’s no perfect time for anything, it’s all going to happen in God’s own time but do I need to lay off until he’s done with school? Help!