Creating Life is (fun) but hard!

So I am posting this here because I feel as if I can't really talk to anyone else about this. My husband and I are trying for our first baby and I feel like all the odds are against us.

Less then a year ago I was diagnosed with Lupus. Which I get is not a death sentence but it does seem to make normal life events a little more difficult (like getting pregnant and or staying pregnant) we have not had any luck with a positive pregnancy test this past year. 7 years ago I did get pregnant but lost the baby.

So fast forward to today, where I am diagnosed with an autoimmune disease, I'm 35 years old and confused.

I guess what I was wondering, if any of you lovely ladies are or have gone threw this or something close to this and beat the odds? That there is hope because I am at a loss and I feel like I'm failing my husband, in not giving him a child at this point. Help!!