We really don’t do much with them but when it comes to getting together my husband NEVER wants to go over there or do anything, like for example we still have to do out Christmas with my family we have it planned for 2-2-19 and my dad wants to change locations and do it at a water park instead of my OCD sister house like we always do and something always happens cuz god forbid you put you stuff down anywhere she has to move it within seconds of it being there, so I told my husband and he started to say “Oh that’s dumb” “Well I ain’t going anyways” and when I asked why not he said cuz there’s. I point at all but when it comes to his family we have to go somewheres doing something with his family and all that, he hasn’t been to my parents place in over a year and I’ve gone there a dozen or so and every time I tell him we are going over to my parent on a certain day he make up some excuse on why he can’t go like “Oh I was going to go into work for over time” or “Im going to stay back just in case my dad needs me” always coming up with something and I’m sick of it but god forbid I say something to him he flips out and starts yelling and bitching at me about how retarded I and and shit. I’m just so sick of making up excuses on why he’s not coming with me and the kids, and when me and the kids do go over he expects me home by a certain time and I tell him it’s not happening cuz sometime he wants us home 3-4 hrs after we leave and it’s already and hour drive there for me so when I tell him we will be home around 6-7pm he flips out and is texting me the whole time asking “Ao what we are having dinner at 9pm” and would have told him if the kids and I are eating over there but he thinks I still needs to make him a dinner when he’s 29 yrs old and can make it himself.