So I've been blessed with being a stay at home Mama to our sweet baby since she came into the world 9 months at go and I love every second of it...however, my husband has this notion that I'm lazy AF bc the house isn't always spotless on a daily. He thinks I just lay around w her all day and naps when she naps and just leave crap everywhere intentionally. He is very OCD and I am not, but in our 6 almost 7 years together we gave both come a long ways. I told him I know things slip here and there, but spending my time interacting with our daughter is more important than mopping every day. I know he doesn't understand how time consuming it is to watch her all day. I dont just sit her in front of a TV to make my life easier . We play and do exercises and activities. I feel like I'm Totally failing as a wife and a mom , but I know I am not bc we have a beautiful, smart, and seriously the happiest baby ever and I know that is because of me. What do I do to get him to grasp this? Other than leaving him home w her for 8 hours, bc she is EBF and honestly, I know he would just put her in her jumper and or just let her cry it out if she was unhappy. We havent spoken in over 24 hours now since he blew up w the accusations of me not doing crap around the house. I'm at a loss.