Help! Getting divorced and husband is joining the military


My husband and I have been married for 5 months. We have a soon to be 1 year old son. We moved to Mn a little over a year ago to raise our family here. He is mentally and emotionally abusive, he’s a drunk, and really only that way when he’s drunk. Which is like everyday. I have to lock my son and I in the bathroom at times, he calls me a piece of shit, lazy fuck. Everything else. He was wasted going into work last night and I packed his stuff and he came to get it this morning with nothing said this am.

I am a stay at home mom and I do daycare for one infant, I also own my own business doing eyelash extensions, I’m slowly building my clientele but is hard with a baby also.

What is going to happen with custody, will we split? Isk how all this works especially with him joining that air force! we live with my mom and dad currently and I have beyond so much support and he has no family up here.

Help I’m freaking out!