My and my bf had a argument last night it was late I was just getting off of work. I had a bit of a hard day. Working in operating room and doing injections. We were talking on the phone and I asked if he could pick me from work as I knew it was his day off the next day. We discussed and he said no. I let it go and continued to talk about a holiday we wanted to plan. Now he was insinuating he wouldn't be able to go. So I got annoyed and I pretty much became defensive. I was a lot more quiet than usual and with an attitude. I know, petty, but I never ask him for anything sometimes I have to tell him to not do too much. So it felt personal to me when he was pulling back. So now move forward to today, its my birthday and have received wonderful well wishes from family and friends. But nothing from him... I know it's only 6pm (where I am) but its got me feeling some way. Normally I would reach out but I don't feel like it's my place to. Should I be the bigger person?