My boyfriend tells me a lot that sometimes he just doesn’t feel like talking to me. He says he doesn’t know why but that he just doesn’t feel like it. I don’t really understand it but it makes me feel like garbage.

I know that I should respect the way he feels and I do, but I’ve never heard of anyone who’s s/o just didn’t feel like talking to them without a reason or something. And for him to feel this way as often as he does.. it hurts a lot. And I have explained this to him and he didn’t really care too much about it upsetting me.

Maybe I’m just thinking too much about it but it definitely does not make me feel loved when he does that. It makes me feel the opposite honestly. Any advice?