My boyfriend of three years and I are nearly perfect together, we've grown and evolved together over the years and made each other better versions of ourselves, we love each other deeply. The only thing in our relationship that doesn't work is our sex life. He doesn't have a sex drive at all, and says his adhd is to blame for a lot of the reason why even if it crosses his mind, he doesn't initiate anything. I have a really hard time initiating things and have started to do it more since I know I'm the one that needs to. I wish we would have sex more often or he would give me more "sexy" compliments, etc. The sex is some of the best I've ever had when we do, it just doesn't happen nearly enough in my opinion.

What do you think I should do in this situation? It's the only thing holding me back from wanting to further our relationship..