My boyfriend doesn’t believe in trying for a baby?

Question

So my SO and I have been together for almost two years, we also live together and have been for almost a year and tonight the topic of children came up.
So I ask him how long after marriage does he want to try for a baby he replies “he doesn’t “believe” in actively trying for a baby he wants to just have unprotected sex until I happen to get pregnant.” 
Like I have my own life timeline and when I want to have children by... So just having unprotected sex and “letting it take its course” doesn’t work for me. He must not understand how hard it is to get pregnant when actually trying to get pregnant? Having sex twice a week won’t cut it especially if we don’t have sex around ovulation.  
Anyways this really has me questioning my relationship.
What is your opinion on this?

UPDATE: I really appreciate your comments! I think it would be smart to track myself and initiate sex around ovulation.. but what if I do and he never wants to have sex when I need us to and it takes forever to get pregnant.. what do I say or do in that scenario?

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Keep track of your ovulation and just have sex when you’re ovulating. He doesn’t need to know you’re actively keeping track of it. As long as he does want to have kids now there’s no difference. My husband wasn’t aware when I was ovulating but I was and here I am 33 weeks pregnant haha. I mostly did it so my husband didn’t feel the pressure of trying which is what he was scared of to begin with.

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I kinda understand what he means, kinda like don’t stress out sex or turn it into a chore. You can have fun all day and twice as much fun on ovulation.

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Track it yourself just don’t tell him.

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I didn't track with my son. We just enjoyed each other. With this pregnancy, I did track because my clock is ticking. It was honestly so much harder and more stressful for both of us. I am convinced that I ovulated early too and conceived on a "low peak" day on the calendar, so the tracking was not the best way to go anyway. :)

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Just don't tell him when you're ovulating and initiate sex when you are. It only takes once anyway. I only had sex once on my second fertile day to conceive baby #2. With my daughter we had sex once on ovulation day. I guess "trying for a baby" isn't sexy for a man and the sex needs to be spontaneous and because you actually want to, not because you want his sperm.

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Track it yourself, and dont make a big deal about it.... if you do it's a chore, and boring

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Track it anyway initiate when you know you are ovulating everyone is different some people don’t like the stress of the whole trying thing my husband and I both agreed to try we were winging it at first then I bought ovulation test I told him about it he said cool let me know when my services are need lol good luck !

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Track it yourself and don’t tell him! If he wants kids, there is no issue at alll. It actually works out in your favor, when guys feel pressure about giving their wives babies, sometimes it makes it hard for them to preform and they feel way to much pressure because they know it ALL depends all on their swimmers and they don’t wanna disappoint. Just have hot sex when you know you are and zip your lip! 😉

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This sounds like my husband. I track mine tho.

My boyfriend doesn’t believe in trying for a baby?

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