Bj and sex

I’ve been with my boyfriend for over a year , and every time we have sex he takes control and does most of the work. We both never really have an issue with this.

I like to give him head or toss him off, I just like knowing that I’m making him feel good , but he’s admitted that when I give him head it’s not the best, not his words, he never cums from it as it’s usually just something before we actually have sex. But I’m just really upset because I want to be able to do it good and knowing he enjoys it,

Any tips , tricks, advice ?