Having a baby has completely gotten rid of any sexual feelings I once had.. I don’t ever get turned on no matter what. I try so hard and I physically can’t get in the mood. I’m also EBF so I’m dry down there and it hurts the whole time. My fiancé has a very high sex drive and wants to all the time and I avoid it at all costs.. I’m a FTM so I’m not sure if it gets better with time? My SO thinks I’m not interested and that’s not true.