Trying to get pregnant

Hi All,

It’s my first time to post, but seeing everyone so supportive, I decided to give it a go!

I am trying to get pregnant for 4 months. My husband works 24 hour shifts and the day he’s back, he is too tired, so we can try only once every three days. Sometimes it happens even less.

My period is irregular but I never missed it. I live abroad so I am a bit worried to go get a check up here. I will be back in my home country in Feb.

I ordered opk and next cycle I will test for ovulation.

The reason I’m not going all crazy about checking temperature, always tracking everything and stuff is because I don’t want it to ruin our intimate life or pressure my husband.

I wonder if anyone is thinking similar?