He didnt get hard with me!!

So basically me and this guy have been into each other for a fews months now. This past weeks it finally happened. The dick appointment was set. The problem was that the night before he was at party so he was devastatedly hungover. We were going so well, then i asked him for the condom he went looking for it. When he came back we started over but after a few minutes it was still not hard! I felt so embarassed! This had never happened to me. He said it never happened to him as well and seemed upset saying "damn, not with u". So he went down on me and it was awesome.

the thing is: i thought it was a one yime thing (nervousness +tiredness).

SO we met a 2 time. AND IT ALSO DIDNT GET HARD.

I dont know what to think cause overall it was pretty good except for this..

Has someone ever experienced anything like it? Please share!