have a hard time “not trying” while trying ? after my miscarriage last month i deleted this app and swore up and down that if it happened it happened and that i wouldnt track anything. as soon as my period finished at the beginning of january i ended up re downloading this app and tracking all over again. i feel like i’m not in control if i don’t follow what’s going on with my cycle. i know regardless if i tracked or not it would still take the same amount of time but people keep telling me to just “relax and don’t even think about it” and that “if you stop thinking and trying it’ll happen” how do you not think about it when it’s all you want ?!?!?