Alright yall, so I've been with my boyfriend for 4.5 years and our sex life has only gotten better and better. Multiple orgasams, open communication, non judgement, the whole 9 yards. He's a great guy, I love him and he takes amazing care of me in bed.

However, recently like maybe the past 2 weeks hes been having trouble "finishing" like, he'll be doing great the whole time then lose it right when it's his turn.

I'm worried that it's me because even though 4 years isnt that long of a time I can tell I'm not the same as I used to be down there, I feel like I'm much more...accomodating now and at 20 years old those arent the kind of thoughts you want to have about your kitty, it's the prime of my life!!

He insisted it is not me and whatnot when I brought it up to him but he has mentioned before that if we have sex for a while or very often then it starts to feel almost too wet? Like most sensation is gone and it's just like a slippery mess. I agree with him, that does tend to happen and has been more often recently but I hate to think that's why he cant finish.

Any advice or words of encouragement are helpful, I'm desperate at this point. I just want our great sex to go back to normal.

(Ps. We're already looking into it being anxiety induced and also we havent been going to the gym as often as we used to so maybe that could be it too..)

Pic of me for reference (: