So my boyfriend and I have been together for almost four years and in the beginning we had an amazing sex life and it was always him wanting me and I was never unsatisfied. But lately within the past 6ish months he won’t initiate anything and sex never seems to be on his mind. The other night he woke up and it was like crazy loving him again, and after with the sweet cuddling and talking after we had a good talk and I found out he just watches porn to take care of feelings I guess. And I’ve always been curious and self conscious I’ll admit so I asked what kind and I looked up what he said and all these women were the exact opposite of me.

I’m Mexican and white. So slightly darker than all the women he’s dated. Facial features obviously and not to mention bigger. He’s always watched videos of these really small girls super pasty white skinny and everything (not hating just giving examples you go girls) and I’ve been curvy my whole life.

My question is that is this normal for guys to date outside their “type”? And do you think he’s losing interest in me sexually?