My husband works 40 hrs a week plus staying up late working on another business. I work 26-30 hr a week plus I do everything at home. I clean, cook, go grocery shopping, take care of our 2 yr old.... I do everything for her. He rarely helps. He will play with her but that is it. I am pregnant with our second. Everyday I ask him to do something around the house... whether it’s picking up some toys or putting his shoes away or even throwing his trash away. He does it 50% of the time. I constantly nag him to do stuff. He has his business he wants me to help with but I am becoming resentful to it and him. He works 1:30-10 and stays up all night until 5 in the morning working on it and then sleeps until 10/11. I’m off on only one of his off days which I would love to have family time.

Today was his off day and I asked him so many times last night to please sleep so we can enjoy our day together. He stayed up until 6 am. The whole day so far he just lays on the couch. He doesn’t want to do anything. I always bring him coffee and shit and I am getting so tired of it. I want a partner not someone who is lazy. I have voiced how I feel TOO many times and I am becoming depressed again. I always remind him how much it means to me if he asks me if he can do anything to help me but he never does. Today he finally said he’s not doing anything he doesn’t want to do and even threatened to be separated because I keep asking him everyday to do something around the house. He wants me to do everything at home and all he does is have to work and come home. I feel like a fucking servant and I am so tired of it. I don’t want to be separated I just want to feel like we are a team. Now that I am pregnant I am more tired and just feel so alone now. I don’t even want to talk to him.