Okay so i have this ex and we dated for only two months. Our breakup was mutual after realizing that we didn’t really work as a couple. After that we stopped talking completely bc honestly even though the breakup was mutual it still kind of hurt. So fast forward to now I have a new boyfriend and we have been dating for around seven months. We are pretty serious and in love of course.

So here is my dilema. My ex, we’ll call him C, is in a band and this band is fucking amazing. While C and i were dating i went to his shows and honestly fell in LOVE with his band. I haven’t been to a show since we broke up but I do still listen to their music. I guess what im asking is is it weird for me to still listen and enjoy his band? And like ive been wanting to go to a show lately and see them perform live bc they are AMAZING live and sometimes they do shows around where i live. I missed alot of close ones bc i thought it would be weird to go to my ex’s show. But like does it even matter? Like i dont have to talk to him or allow him to know im there but i also dont want to hide from him either ya know. Were not on bad terms at all we just dont talk anymore.