So I’m senior in high school and I’m in Advanced choir. So, I had missed a day of school because my mom was threatening to take me out of the choir trips knowing I was looking forward to them and they’re already paid for. She told me that if I didn’t fix my attitude at home that she’d pull me from the trips. So I stayed home to try to fix it so I’d be able to go on trips. When you’re gonna miss a day you have to tell a choir officer just to make sure you’re ok. So I told the choir president that I wouldn’t be there. My reason was that I needed a mental health day to gather myself up and that I’d be back the next day. She told me that we’re close to competition and that we couldn’t afford to miss and that we’d have part checks the next day. I told her the best I could do was get ready for part checks the next day and that I was good on my notes so she didn’t have to worry. She said that it’s not about knowing my notes, it’s about singing as a choir. So the next day I show up and felt like the teacher was being a little distant towards me so I didn’t ask her for anything didn’t really talk to her much. Mind you my teacher is kind of like a second mom because advanced choir has made us close. So then another day goes by and it still felt the same way so I just decided to let her have her space because of the vibe I was feeling. The third day is finally here and I get to class and eat my lunch because we had a lunch rehearsal and I was just talking to a friend. So then we go to warm up our voices and we stop on one warm up and she makes my section do it over and over again. She kept saying that one of us wasn’t singing it right and that one of us was holding the whole choir back. So then she starts to lecture us about how one of us is being a diva and that one of us thinks we’re the best in the choir. So then she finally comes out and calls me out saying that I need to fix my attitude and stop being dismissive to people and that people kept telling her about their problem with me and she just kept saying all of this stuff. (I didn’t say I was the best but at one point I felt like I was holding up my entire section because they wouldn’t sing loud enough and I didn’t feel like I was getting enough credit for it, I didn’t really wanna talk to anyone because of what was going on at home, I felt like everyone was ignoring me because I’d look at them or try talking to them and they’d ignore me). Basically after that she said that we were all gonna sort out our problems with each other and nobody but 2 people said anything to me but it basically forced me to tell everyone what was going on at home which I wasn’t comfortable doing. I’d really like to know anyone’s opinion whether it’s about me or them please.