Most all of us are pretty uncomfortable by now, so I may not need to explain further but I do want to add that I made the mistake of squatting to get certain angles on a diy project and my leg, thigh, and butt muscles have been screaming the last three days because of it. I'm talking, can't sit down on the toliet sore lol.

Anyways my lower back starts hurting too. I ask my usually helpful husband to rub it and he just barely touches my back

I wouldn't usually say anything but it kind of rubbed me the wrong way. I let him know that that wasn't doing much and I guess that irritated him cause he complains that he's not doing a good job because he's been sore since the afternoon.

UM OKAY. Like I haven't been uncomfortable and sore and a myriad of other things for months now.

Then he adds in, "I don't know why you'd ask me to do this at bedtime"

And that did it. I said

"Oh you're going to bed? because you're on your phone just fine."

I ended up telling him to forget it and he says I'm being emotional about it.

Pregnant or not, this would hurt my feelings. I don't expect him to get the strain of pregnancy but he could try to show a little more compassion.

Gonna chalk it up to him being tired because he's not usually like that at all and is super helpful but ugh. I'm so mad about it right now.