My name is Tiffany and I am 19 almost 20. So this is an update from the Joseph situation where I didn't kiss him because I had never kissed or been in a relationship with anyone and also because I wasnt that interested in him in that way. Joseph used to work at my job which is a restaurant and he came last Wednesday with another girl. The girl was a friend so I took the opportunity to get his number to give him a chance. He then invited me to go to his house to watch birdbox. The decision I made was out of character when I said sure.(I have trust issues). Nothing happened, he poked me one time and I almost wanted to chop his hand off. Now today he texted me if I wanted to go to house again but for him to give me a back massage. Trying to normalize it with "Its a hobby of mine I do it for my friends all the time when they are stressed." I know I keep my guard up too much but I feel like he doesn't want to get to know me and just wants to sleep with me by slowly reeling me in.