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Question

If I fall asleep with the baby, or my boyfriend and I argue he’ll go in the bathroom by himself and bathe, and master bate to porn. Is this normal? He’s done it almost every night now. Tonight I fell asleep with the baby and walk into the bathroom and unlock it to him jacking off, saying “I texted you I was gonna touch myself, shouldn’t have fell asleep”. Wtf. Biggest turn off and so disrespectful in my eyes.

Answer

Honestly yeah. The guy has to get off. 🤷🏼‍♀️. I have fibromyalgia and a toddler so I am always exhausted. I can fall asleep in an ambulance with the sirens. It used to irritate the hell out of me when my husband did that cause then I’d be up for sex and he’s already got off without me. 🙄. We had to sit down and talk it all out. Guys want attention as much as kids do sometimes and they have a tendency to expect everything to bounce back to their reality after a baby is in the picture. We put things into perspective and talked about how each other felt by each other’s actions. Now I make sure to ask him once my son is to bed if he wants to relax on his own or hang out? If he wants his he time I do me and then off to bed I go. If not we hang out and normally have sex 😉 and I try to throw in the quickie during nap times on the weekend. In return he helps around the house and with our son a hell of a lot more so I’m not so tired. You gotta figure out your compromise that takes both your feelings into consideration

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