Im a 21-year-old college student who’s been single most of my life. Yes, I’m a virgin because I haven’t met anyone who made me want to have sex. I’m all for sex, but my heart has to be in it. Just how I am.

I experimented using tinder a year ago and it ended pretty bad. I totally missed the signs that this guy was just looking to hook up (it’s tinder, what did I expect??! 😂) anyway, it made me quit the online dating and dating in general. I just felt too uncomfortable.

However, ive been thinking that I order to get over this fear and eventually find meaningful connection I have to practice dating. So I joined Hinge and have some dates lined up. But I’m so terrified that I’ll screw things up and do something I regret later. Any tips on how to make this experience safe and fun?? What are some red flags you’d avoid if you’re not just looking to hook up? Thanks everyone!