okay so i know this will sound petty to some, but there has also been many past events that have lead to this moment...

so i'm sat with my fiancé while he's just fallen asleep, and he phone goes off, i wake him up and tel him it's his old friend (let's call her nikki)

so he tells me to reply- still half asleeep....

basically she wanted some advice on a holiday destination - which is fine!!!

i reply to her and we have a lil chat and a laugh and then i happen to see the previous messages...

basically it was my fiancé apologising to her saying 'sorry it should never have happened'

and her saying basically ... 'no worries your not the only one to have hit and ran on me haha!'

so i messaged her again (she knew it was me)... and said... i'm so sorry i've just seen the message above- have you and my SO been together before?.....

she basically logged straight off of facebook and has not muted her chat?!?

so i woke my fiancé and asked him about it and he instantly went upstairs, called me nosey and told me to fuck off.... along with many other things...

eventually he came back down and we argued all night....

here's the thing..... he's still been mates with this girl for all this time after they slept together and when we first got together i specifically asked him about her and he said 'we've never ever done anything'

but it was a lie.... he went to her house not long before he met me and comforted her and stayed over the night becuase of her physco boyfriend at the time....

eventually at like 4 am they ended up kissing quickly and then had sex, that only lasted about 3 minuets because he said he has issues keeping it up and it was just such a mistake...

but he's lied to me about this for nearly 3 years now? if it was something so innocent why even lie?!?!

i'm seriously done this time- and now how can i trust him with any of his other female friends? like has he slept with all of them aswel and just hasn't told me?!

help me with some advice please ladies..😞