If your husband/bf/SO kisses on you and squeezes your butt and says “this is my woman; I love my woman”, will your children (boys) go to school squeezing the butts of little girls and trying to kiss them? My SO shows major affection towards me in front of his kids....nothing X-rated but it concerns me because one of the boys calls himself having a gf and he’s only four. I don’t want him going to daycare squeezing their butts. Seriously it could cause problems. My SO’s stance is that he wants his kids to know he loves me and that when they grow up they need to be affectionate 🤗 to their “woman”. On you n hand, I agree; on the other hand I don’t want them doing this now at age four and people thinking they’re weird.

Note: these twin boys (4yrs old) are with his ex. So there’s that too.

Example: I’m in the kitchen cooking. sO comes in hugging and butt grabbing and neck kissing. I look up and the twins are right there, grinning from ear to ear and dancing around. But one twin considers himself to have a gf. He can’t be doing this to another 4 yr old girl.