How soon is TOO soon to have kids with someone?

Question

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months ( we were friends for like 5 months before), We kinda want to try to start having a baby like this year. 
I just feel like I always see people giving other people shit for having kids so soon in a relationship but does anyone actually care?! 
I don’t think it matters because you know when you know.. what do you think? 
How long did you wait to have kids with your S/O?!

Answer

Well I figured it’s good to take the time to know your partner so you can get to know them past the shallow surface. I believe its important learn whether you are compatible as a couple and as parents along the line and to my knowledge that takes a significant time. 
Like I’d like to see how my partner reacts with people in his life especially his and my family, how he acts in hard/strenuous situations up, how he handles finances etc. Therefore to me I’ll need time, no less than years tbh, to do so. Hence the first step would be marriage, or at least damn well established relationship, then comes the possibility of a child.  
Nonetheless to each his/her own. As long as a happy nurturing family is being provided, it’s all good.

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My boyfriend and i moved in together after 3 months of dating  and ended up pregnant after 9 months of being together. She definitely wasn’t planned as i was on birth control but she is the biggest blessing we could have ever received. If you guys feel ready I’d say go for it! We’ve now been together for almost a year and a half and will be welcoming our daughter in less than 5 weeks!

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I was with my husband 5 years before we got married. We've been married 6 months now and all my family tells me to wait till I've been married for a year. That just goes to show people still give you crap no matter what 🤷🏻‍♀️We are ready and trying. Do what you feel in your heart is right. If your relationship is ready and you're also ready financially and/or have a plan, do it. I posted something similar because I was conflicted but at the end of the day it's YOUR relationship.

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I would wait till marge but that is just the religious part of me speaking

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I think some people say wait because, “when you know, you know” is not right all the time. Some people “know” every time they have feelings and then, how every many months later everything changes cuz they see the real person.

How soon is TOO soon to have kids with someone?

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