Me and my husband have been together 12 and a half years, married almost 3. We have 2 beautiful children, 22 months and 3 months. Even before we were married, my husband was bad with money. I usually had more and did my best to be smart with it. I got irresponsible with it and I’m paying the price now. Anyways, my husband smokes weed. I really don’t care unless we don’t have the money for bills. Recently, he has been extremely selfish and been spending way more money than I want. His checks go directly to my bank account because I pay the bills. Well for Christmas, my grandpa gave us $100 and my daughters each got $25 from my aunt and uncle. I left the money from my grandpa in the card and didn’t tell my husband. The girls money I put in my oldest daughters piggy bank. I didn’t tell him where I put that money. My brakes went on my car a couple weeks after Christmas and I was going to use the money from my grandpa for my brakes. That money was missing. Then I thought maybe I folded it up with my daughters money so I checked her piggy bank. No cash. So $150 missing. Like I said before, my oldest isn’t that old. She doesn’t know much about the money in her piggy back and she wouldn’t know how to open it. It’s in her room so only me and my husband had access to the money. I said something to my husband and he flipped because I accused him of stealing the money. Today, I went into my wallet to count the money in there (rent money should’ve been $220) and I was short $40. Were already super behind on our rent so I wanted to get some money to my uncle (our landlord) and I can’t pay him what I wanted to because money is missing. My husband knows there’s money in my wallet. I just know he took the money but he will never admit it. What do I do? We’re on the verge of losing the house, I’m in bad debt and half my cards are going to collections, we have 2 young kids. I don’t want a divorce but I’m seriously considering it. He’s not much help other than financially. Any advice? Thanks for reading to the end of you did.