So to start off , I’m 21 going to be 22 this year. And all my life I always thought about having kids when I was older(like 25ish). Like I always figured I would have 2-3 kids lol . I’v been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 5 years. We know we are the ones for each other . This summer we are going to be looking at houses together. When we started going out we talked about having kids and all that.. And just the past 1-2 years it’s like I don’t have an urge to have kids .. like my mindset lately has been if I ever will have kids it won’t be for a long time. Like talking late twenties early 30s.. idk I just can’t see myself having kids anytime soon. I expressed this to him as well and he is as supporting as always. I just don’t know what changed in me that I don’t have that urge to have kids yet. I want to experience our life together and just have fun before I would think about having kids. And with a lot of people around me getting pregnant and all that it makes me feel like something is wrong with me lol. Idk.. did anyone else ever get like this?