Okay I've Got To Vent
So for y'all to understand I am the biggest person my husband has ever been in a relationship with. I've always been perfectly fine being plus size and pretty confident with the body I'm in, and now that I'm almost 6 months pregnant I'm even bigger which is fine for me because it means my little guy is growing like he should be, but today I felt in a funk and as stupid as this sounds I needed reassurance from my husband on how I look. He told me I was beautiful today after he came home from work and I simply asked,"what about my body do you find beautiful?" It wasn't a smartalic question, I was honestly curious at that moment. The first thing he said was,"you're always beautiful to me." The second thing he said was,"I'm not with you because of your looks." And something about that second statement cut me deep and boiled my nerves. I bit my tongue because it isn't worth arguing about but does any of you other ladies just HATE when your guy says that to you?? I don't know about you but it just makes me feel worse instead of better, like he's saying,"I love your personality but your looks suck." Is this just me? Maybe I'm just being emotional because of my pregnancy i don't know but this really hurt my feelings.
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