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Soooo my bday was the 31st and I'm now 14. My boyfriend came to my party on the 2nd and we made out for an hour  and we kept making out mind you I was laying kinda on him and I felt him get a boner...he wants to have sex with me but I feel I'm too young..what do I do the next time this happens? Also, am I too young? Please someone answer those two questions please. Also this is him he's definitely a cutie♥️🤞🏼🤤🤷🏼‍♀️

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You’re definitely too young. Tell him you’re not ready to have sex, communication is always key. Do not let him pressure you into doing anything.

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Wait. Yes, you're too young hun. (Coming from someone who lost their virginity at 14.) Trust me. You don't need the stress that follows or the expectation to keep doing it if you don't want to anymore. You have your whole life to have sex. Wait until you truly feel ready. He will be fine.

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Do Not! I think you are probably too young and he might just want to get in your pants and then leave you

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Honey I lost my virginity at 18 nothing wrong with waiting until you are 100% comfortable!!! Too young!! Enjoy being young!!

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As someone who was pressured into sex at 14 PLEASE DO NOT DO IT! Yes you are too young and even you know you are. Next time it is brought up tell him no an stick to your ground.

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I lost my virginity at 14 & regret it. I’m 27 now & I wish I had waited until I was ready! I was pressured into it like most 14 year olds. When you do decide you’re ready, please use birth control.

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I think you're very young. Tell him that you aren't ready for sex.

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You’re both cuties. What an adorable couple. Yes you are without a doubt too young and not ready. The next time he tries you have to tell him you are t ready for two reasons.
1 if he knows you aren’t ready he will (hopefully) stop asking
2 you can see if he’s willing to wait, bc if he’s going to keep pressuring you then you need to leave

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Girrrrl. Dont do it! Seriously. You will regret it later in life. Sex is so much more enjoyable when you understand the feelings that really go behind it. I think 14, 15, 16, even 17 is pushing it. Why are kids in such a hurry to grow up. I promise being an adult sucks. You have sex then you run the risk of a baby. Then your life is really going to be hard.

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You are way too young, and he should understand if you’re not ready yet. Don’t rush it or force it

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