Incompetent Cervix

Hello everyone, I just joined this group today because I feel so broken and like I can’t and won’t make it. I’ve lost a baby girl on 4/15/16, I was 21 weeks and lost her due to an infection called Chorioamnionitis, my baby girl was still born. In 2017 I had a miscarriage at 5 weeks in November. Just a couple days I delivered another still born baby girl 💔 I was also 21 weeks. I lost her due to having an incompetent cervix. I did get an emergency cerclage placed last Wednesday at 20 weeks and 2 days with the hopes it would keep her In there longer. Unfortunately i went into labor Wednesday 1/30/19 @ 12 AM and had my baby girl at 8:58 AM. 😞💔 it really sucks and hurts so much. Doctor said next pregnancy I’ll have a cerclage placed earlier now since they know my problem. Anyone else here had something similar happen?