Should I proceed with a relationship with this guy!!!

I’ve been dating a guy for a year and two months. As everyone knows everything is always great in the beginning. But I start to suspect a few things like him possibly talking to someone else. He travels a lot of time out of spontaneity but I never get invited. Anywho, we followed one another on social media and my birthday is dec 1 his dec 31... so he posts on my birthday pics and etc. but when I post on his pics just saying happy birthday 😘 my post got deleted. I asked him why would he deleted he responds to tell me about internet trolls... like really I like him and all but he’s someone that I wouldn’t normally date... I’m a great catch he’s not the best looking guy but has a nice package 📦 besides the point. I’ve tried to talk to him on a deeper level but he’s not the committed type of guy. I’m thinking long term I’m 29 he’s 36 we don’t have kids and in like I’m looking for someone who wants the same is me he’s a great person but he’s very cheap when we go on dates and sometimes I end up paying because he so calls leaves his wallet. I’m not sure if it’s intentional or not. I’ve began to ignore him now but he wants to so call commitment I’m not sure but I don’t want to keep wasting time. I want to have a family soon.... what do you guys think s