Sex advice

Ladies, I need your help!

How do you initiate sex with your partner?

We’ve been together 8 years and he’s the least affectionate person I know and it drives me nuts. So this often results in us not having sex too frequently.

I’m now feeling like he doesn’t find me attractive or isn’t in love anymore.

He told me a couple weeks ago “ he doesn’t find sex that enjoyable”

Which absolutely broke my heart.

Help a sister out, this is my soul mate. But I can’t keep going like this