I’m confused

Cum is just slang for orgasm it’s the same thing

Cum is slang for orgasm. Women can orgasm in a few different ways, by ejaculating or not, or clitorally or vaginally. Getting wet is just a natural thing that happens when you’re aroused. You have bartholins glands near the entrance to your vagina that secrete a lubricant to prepare you for sex. Squirting or female ejaculation is generally achieved via g-spot stimulation and comes from your urethra. It is a mixture of female prostate fluid (milky white) and sometimes pee.

It's not that they dont have anything to do with one another but make vs female they're different. A man usually orgasms once during sex, this is when he is cumming. Or ejacualting. For a woman, they can "cum" which is just becoming extremely wet basically. But can have an orgasm without that feeling of cumming. And women have the capability to orgasm many many times in one session. A man can as well, but usually takes 20 min after an orgasm to be able to get hard again. And might not cum again but if he already has cum, it will be more sensitive and pleasurable round 2+. I hope that makes sense.