Why cant he understand??

Je

So lately me and my man sex life have became every now and then smh we hardly kiss or cuddle and i have question was he happy and does he still find me attractive he says yes but its like his actions make me feel unwanted and like he doesnt want me. He isnt the type to express himself so i always have to ask anything that i want to know. I have needs and i know he does. I just dont get it and when i ask he says its my insecurities that makes me feel even worst. He feel like nothing is wrong so then it becomes a argument. We are use to doing it everynight if not that then every other night. Its just got me thinking.